Have you ever met that stranger in the train, bus or market and fell instantly in love? Have you ever felt done with a person in spite of going on some hundred dates with that person?  You are constantly trying to make a point with your girlfriend but she always ends up taking it other way! Well you are dealing with compatibility issue and you need to know a little about ‘Zodiacs’. Yes I have not lost my mind and I am not superstitious but even if you don’t believe in astrology you would be knowing that God has given us distinct personalities yet we possess many similar attributes which connects us at the spiritual level. We easily gel up with few people and just can’t stand with other set of people. So take this post as you little enlightenment on relationships, moods and temperament. So, now gear up and fasten you seat belts as I am taking you to a very exciting world of zodiacs and once you will finish it you are surely gonna exclaim ” hey, that is me” or ” hell yeah, she has this trait!”Also all cool people know a little about zodiacs.

LINDA GOODMAN TAKE ON LOVE COMPATIBILITY!

SAGITTARIUS, you will immediately be drawn to Aries. A LEO man, you will always squabble about money with a Capricorn woman. A GEMINI involved with an Aquarius, you are unhappy when things run too smoothly. A CAPRICORN man, you may resent a Pisces woman’s desire to pursue a career. A TAURUS, you will love or hate scorpios, nothing in between. A CANCER woman, you can make a Gemini man remember the things that really matter.A VIRGO woman, you will have to watch your Sagittarius man’s spending habits. AQUARIUS, you tend to put off Scorpios with your flaky ways, but they couldn’t be more wrong. An ARIES woman, your Aries man will always try to convince you that he’s smarter than you. LIBRA, you will have to call on your great charm and tact to put up with Scorpio’s dark moods. A scorpio woman, you will expect the Sagittarius man to pay for his sins. A PISCES woman who falls in love with an Aries man will find the stars shining brightly for her.

Now I start, It is just that we talk zodiac and don’t mention Linda Goodman. OMG! Rude.

ZODIAC

So there are basically 12 zodiac signs based on the period of birthdays.People believe that different signs of the zodiac present different characteristics and talents. I will try to describe it through images for easy understanding. So first you see what is your zodiac and what is your lovers zodiac

So now you make a mental note of you and your partner zodiac sign.Good!

ELEMENTS

But there is more(yeah! haha). Now The twelve astrology zodiac signs are grouped into four essential “elements”— the Earth, Air, Water, and Fire. And each element has its own characteristics telling us valuable information about a person. It is widely believed that your personality is shaped by your Zodiac and as such, your element sign. Now you find what are your element traits and what are your partner’s. Have a look at this picture

So, You can make out that you can easily live with like minded people or similar elements.

• Air is a Yang or Masculine element, which expresses itself as communication, talking, writing, thinking, the intellect and a quick flow of ideas.
• Water is a Yin or Feminine element, which expresses itself as the emotions, nurturing, security, caring, and comfort.
• Earth is a Yin or Feminine element, which expresses itself as reliability, stability, solidity, stoicism, sensuality, and practicality.
• Fire is a Yang or Masculine element, which expresses itself as potency, enthusiasm and spontaneity.There is a spirited and fiery presence about you much like a wild stallion

Like Aquarius, Gemini and Libra together will make a very happy family and also create great friendships. They will be drawn to each other every-time they break up and bounce back with more understanding.

But does that mean that we can’t mingle well with other elements? Nope! Each element has many similar attributes to the corresponding elements and they work together to maintain that perfect sync so that none gets too much control over others.These four elements which are also responsible for the formation of this planet co-exist very charmingly  to maintain the balance for everyone’s benefit.So each element is also codependent on other elements. And it maintains harmony in our lives.

Now you can easily match your and your partner’s element and count how much it is matching and off course ‘more the merrier’

ELEMENTARY STATES OR QUALITIES

Each of the four elements occurs in three states or qualities, respectively named the cardinal, fixed and mutable or common states. To make you understand better I give you the example of water.

water—-liquid form—real state— cardinal

water—-ice form—solid state—-fixed

water—-steam—–vapourised—-mutable

So now normally what happens that people who don’t have a particular element would be drawn to those people who have those element.

Cardinal signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra, & Capricorn) like action and are the doers of the zodiac.  This explains why sometimes seemingly incompatible signs by element, such as Aries and Cancer, might become partners because one type takes action in one sphere, while the other takes action in a different sphere so that together they function as a whole.

Fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, scorpio, and Aquarius) will be drawn to each other because they like power, but they may eventually lock horns in power struggles over the same mode that seemed so irresistible for both initially.

Mutable signs (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, and Pisces) adapt fairly well to each other even though together they make lack the determination and stamina necessary for survival.  Of course, if one has enough fixed or cardinal energy to balance things out, the relationship can work.

BACK TO ZODIACS

So now with the understanding of different aspects of zodiacs and why inspite of being poles apart people are invariably drawn to each other I am going to present the best matches

Aries (March 21 -April 19)

Strength: hopeful, active, energetic, honest, versatile, brave, adventurous, passionate, generous, cheerful, argumentative, curious
Weakness: impulsive, naive, self-willed, belligerent, impatient

Best Match: Leo, Sagittarius and Aries

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Strength: romantic, decisive, logical, diligent, ardent, patient, talented in art, perseverant, benevolent
Weakness: prejudiced, dependent, stubborn

Best Match: Capricorn, Virgo and Taurus

Gemini ( May 21 – June 21)

Strength: multifarious, perspicacious, smart, cheerful, quick-witted, clement, charming
Weakness: fickle, gossipy, amphibian

Best Match: Aquarius, Libra and Gemini

 Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

Strength: with strong sixth sense, subjective, gentle, swift, imaginative, careful, dedicated, kind, caring
Weakness: greedy, possessive, sensitive, prim

Best Match: Pisces, Scorpio and Cancer

 Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Strength: proud, charitable, reflective, loyal and enthusiastic
Weakness: arrogant, vainglorious, indulgent, wasteful, willful, and self-complacent

Best Match: Aries, Sagittarius and Leo

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Strength: helping, elegant, perfectionist, modest, practical, clearheaded
Weakness: picky, nosey, tortuous, confining

Best Match: Sagittarius, Taurus and Gemini

 

Libra (September 23 – October 23)

Strength: idealistic, equitable, just, strong social skills, aesthetic, charming, artistic, beautiful, kind-hearted
Weakness: hesitant, narcissistic, lazy, perfunctory, freewheeling

Best Match: Aquarius, Gemini and Libra

Scorpio (October 24 – November 22)

Strength: insightful, superior, rational, brave, beautiful, lively, lovely, optimistic
Weakness: forgetful, careless, rash

Best Match: Virgo, Leo and Aries

Sagittarius ( November 23 – December 21)

Strength: insightful, superior, rational, brave, beautiful, lively, lovely, optimistic
Weakness: forgetful, careless, rash

Best Match: Virgo, Leo and Aries

Capricorn ( December 22 – January 19)

Strength: excellent, intelligent, practical, reliable, perseverant, generous, optimistic, cute, persistent
Weakness: stubborn, lonely, and suspicious

Best Match: Virgo, Taurus and Pisces

 Aquarius( January 20 – February 18)

Strength: original, tolerant, ideal, calm, friendly, charitable, independent, smart, practical
Weakness:  disobedient, liberal, hasty, rebel

Best Match: Gemini, Libra and Aquarius

Pisces( February 19 – March 20)

Strength: conscious, aesthetic, platonic, dedicated, kind, with good temper
Weakness: recessive, sentimental, indecisive, unrealistic

Best Match: Scorpio, Cancer and Capricorn

Hope this information will act as cold coffee in the summer of your relationship! I would also like to share a very interesting information which i stumbled upon while researching my topic that there is a fifth element called ” quinta essentia” as per western astrology. This describes the soul or the spiritual being of a person. It stands apart from the other four elements and is not depicted in the horoscope.

I guess this would be the reason behind most unlikely of couples and relationships where two people are nothing like each other but still make a successful relation. I guess this “quinta essentia”  hints at the freedom of man and reminds us of the great mystery of the eternal.

So wish you happy partner findings and those with partners are wished happy days!And to know more about your zodiac signs click onto these links

Scorpio and its traits you never knew

Fashion,fun and zodiac

XoXo!!